In June 2023, my life changed dramatically when my husband Jhon faced a sudden and severe brain health crisis, leaving him disoriented and struggling with memory loss. One day, he was full of life, and overnight, our world turned upside down. As his partner, I was left to navigate this new reality. Balancing hospital visits, full-time work, and caregiving was overwhelming, especially without nearby family or a strong support network. It was a challenging time; while I felt alone, I knew I had to keep going.
During this time, I discovered something surprisingly simple yet effective: Each morning, as my feet hit the ground, I would say, "Today is going to be a great day!" This small action — what Dr. BJ Fogg calls the "Maui Habit" — helped me start each day with a bit more focus. Yes, it felt awkward at first, but I noticed that this tiny morning routine actually helped me approach daily challenges with a clearer mind.